We need to take a journey down the murkier side of the féminine-masculine gender dynamics. Though women want different things there is something in particular that they want and they communicate this in a vague language that men find confusing….
Have a backbone , don’t be a push over.
But dont confuse gender “equality” with gender “uniformity”. Although men and women were created equally they are inherently different. Therefore their natural and most preferred ROLES in a relationship will be different.
Some women would never admit this but they want a man who knows how to walk that thin line between caring, thoughtful lover and firm assertive leader.
Look at it this way, things are going well with you and the woman in your life. You rarely argue, you really enjoy her company and the sparks are flying in every direction between you two. Then all of a sudden, she explodes on you for something so PETTY and you are shocked. Her emotional blow catches you off-guard. The more you try to explain yourself the worse it gets.
She slowly descends into a full emotional meltdown. You feebly attempt to apologise to her for something you are no longer sure you are innocent of.
In an attempt to restore harmony once again you resort to apologies, maybe food, chocolate and all that and also a promise to
“make things right”
though you did not do anything wrong in the first place
So what should a man do?
The first step is to recognise what is really going on when women behave this way and secondly learn how to approach these situations with the mindset of a mature masculine man with the brain of a woman. It is essential that men be able to adapt to the unforseen outbursts and being able to deal with a difficult, emotional or demanding woman.
REASON? A man can only take so much emotional abuse from a woman before he eventually breaks down. That breaking point may come ten or twenty years later in a marriage or it may come a fee months into a new relationship. Fact is, being tested and not knowing how to respond may cause a man to experience anger, frustration, bitterness and resentment. All the emotions that most of my friends and I know caused us to fall out of love and eventually despise a woman.
A man may be demoralised if his woman constantly tests him and he doesn’t know how to respond successfully, and if he fails to grasp these points she begins to withhold her respect, support and physical affection for him. Therefore he starts to feel unloved, misunderstood and disrespected.
No matter how strong a man thinks he is, over time his armour will crack until he starts to feel resentment and bitterness.
Sadly when a man’s feelings of bitterness towards his woman start to overwhelm him he will move beyond simply despising the woman he once cared for. Instead he will move into the most dangerous state of INDIFFERENCE. The man who is indifferent towards his woman doesn’t care what happens to her or the relationship.
At this point, the poor guy is officially “checked out” of the relationship and is only one argument away from calling it quits. That is of course, if his equally frustrated wife or girlfriend hasn’t already initiated her own exit strategy……
Till next time, live life😎
Think about the future but live for the moment
Zkittlez 